Extraordinary me

Just a quick - completely off topic post about the documentary series on BBC3 - Extraordinary me.
I caught the last 20 minutes of Jamie: Drag queen at 16 and the went on to watch all of Alex: A Life Fast Forward.  What incredible young people!  Jamie was so brave and honest (how dare his school ask him not to go to his prom in a dress!  Shouldn't they be trying to foster tolerance?)

But I was completely blown away by Alex, his family and friends.  It sounded like it was going to be sad from begining to end.  And yes, it was heartbreaking and yes, I did blub my way through most of it but it was also incredibly uplifting and should teach us all how to live and grab the opportunities that come our way.  But also how to be positive and hopeful when, on paper, life looks like it should be awful and miserable.  Here is what the BBC 3 website says: (Click on his name to watch the docummentary on iplayer.)

'Alex Lewis has a remarkable zest for life. Aged 21 he confronts death while falling in love and encourages his friends and family to join in the celebrations.
Alex was first diagnosed with bone cancer shortly before his 18th birthday. After three years of intensive treatment, he realises he is running out of options. He decides to cram as much life as possible into the time he has left.
On the first day of filming in June, 2010 his only sadness is not being able to commit to a long-term relationship. That evening he goes to a party in Swansea, kisses a girl, falls in love and within weeks they are inseparable. In September Alex and Ali become engaged to be married. This is a story of the power of love, as a young man confronts his mortality in the most emotionally charged circumstances imaginable.'



Anyway I should stop raving about these fab people and let you go and watch it!

Have a fun weekend!

Fairy Princess Mummy
xx

Zumba

Anyone else tried Zumba?  I had a go today (as you know it's in my training plan).  And was really disappointed!  I had been so looking forward to it but it was a bit quick for me and no one seemed to be having a giggle.  Instead they were mostly trying to look very cool while shaking their bottoms like Beyonce while I was in the background looking more like Mr. Bean at a disco.  I think I've surprised myself cos I thought this would be my kind of exercise but instead I am loving the manic circuits class I've been going to which makes me feel like I'm going to collapse at the end of it - weirder and weirder.  So I'm going to look again and see if there is another class - maybe Spinning? Haha, only joking, I'm not that mad yet.
In other news - I found out I have the funding to start my masters degree next year - now just waiting for the university to let me in. Fingers crossed.

Fairy Princess Mummy
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Another positive kick up the bum

I had the loveliest email today saying that Altrui have matched me with a couple and soon my appointments will start to be arranged!  It’s a strange emotion – very happy but also a quite nervous.  There was also the reassurance in the email that there is lots of support for me from the two lovely ladies I have already blogged about.  They make you feel like you are doing something really amazing which gives you a warm, fuzzy feeling.  It is a bit odd though because I don’t feel like a really good person for doing this or that it is a big deal.  I just feel very lucky to have wonderful fairy princesses and to have had such great parents (don’t tell them though – I don’t want them to get big headed). 

Any way – enough mushy stuff!  This email gave me extra incentive to lose more weight.  I only lost half a pound this week.  Anything is better than nothing but I really need to be losing 1 – 2 pounds a week so I am rethinking and reassessing my diet and exercise.  So starting Sunday (I know you’re not supposed to put things off but I have a wedding tomorrow and I don’t want to miss out on my glass of bubbly or the mini platter of desserts I know I’m having for pudding!!) I am going to attempt to follow this plan.  (There is a lot of exercise in there because I know I generally will miss one or two sessions a week.)

Sunday	Run on treadmill followed by Yoga class
Monday	Circuits class
Tuesday	Rest day
Wednesday	Run on treadmill
Thursday	Zumba
Friday	Run on treadmill
Saturday	Rest day (as restful as possible with 2 pickles around!)

That makes it sound like I’m a proper runner – I’m not! But would like to be so will be basing these runs on the Zest Running book for beginners – which is fab.  And diet wise I will probably be following Rosemary Conley’s GI diet.  I know she has updated it since writing it but I know it works for me.  I also will try to blog about my progress every day – apparently a good way to stay on track.

Happy days

Fairy Princess Mummy
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My baby is growing up!

It has been quite an emotional week this week as my eldest princess starts school in September.  It has all come around so quickly and I half expected (or hoped?) that this wouldn’t ever happen.  However, I am aware that this is very much MY issue!  She is soooo excited and has been talking about school since last September when her older friends from nursery went.   It shouldn’t be a big deal really as she has been going to nursery full time since she was about 7 months old – but to be honest that doesn’t seem that long ago.

Yesterday I took a couple of hours off work and picked her up early from nursery and went to meet her new teacher.  She had a good look around her new classroom, met Miss B and got to ask any questions about starting school.  I think Miss B is going to be a great teacher for Ellie.  I really liked the way she interacted with her and took the time to talk to her.  It was a bit of relief to go and see the school again and feel more comfortable with how she’s going to settle in.  I also took her to the after school club she is going to go.  Again, I’m very happy with her going there and the ladies who run it are lovely and helpful.

I’m very lucky that Princess Ellie wants to go to school so I am not having to reassure her about it but here is how I have tried (or will try) to make it an easy transition for her.

-          If I did it again I would have taken her to the open day but as it wasn’t our first choice I didn’t worry too much about it.

-          When we found out what school she had got in to I drove her past it and pointed it out to her.

-          After the new parents meeting I told her all about it and how lovely it was.

-          When I did the visit with her (explained above) I made it a special afternoon.  I made sure it was just the two of us (if hubbie had been able to come then we probably would have brought the baby princess but I wanted to make sure as much attention as possible could be focused on Ellie).  After the visit we took her out for hot chocolate so she could tell her daddy all about it.

-          Before we left the school and the after school club I made sure that Ellie had the chance to ask her teachers any questions.

-          Just before she starts school I’ll take her out for another special day to buy her uniform and school bag, etc. and she can help lay everything out the night before she starts.

-          If we decide that she is going to have packed lunch then we will probably go for lots of picnics so she can practice opening her lunch box and getting in to the packaging on her own.

The BBC website has an advice page as well that is really nice and gives sensible advice. (http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/physical_health/child_development/primary_starting.shtml)

Happy days

Fairy Princess Mummy
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Photo Finish

I had some very exciting news yesterday!  I had to send off two lots of photos of me (a grown up one so the people at Altrui can physically match me with a couple and baby photos of me to give to the couple).  And very quickly after sending off the final photos I had an email saying they have a couple they want to match me with - so it sounds like it's all go!!

One thing I don't think I've mentioned is the obvious fact that this might not work.  A couple may get their hopes up and we could all go throught this process and there is a very definite chance that this may not work.  I do however try to ignore this and pootle along in blissful ignorance and assume that all will be well.  Nothing like a bit of positive thinking!

Happy days

Fairy Princess Mummy
xx